you know it is also okay not to be 100% happy 100% of the time right? like that is a thing you know. i think even if people think of you as genki or whatever that is an unfair expectation since then you have to be happy all the time and that is way too much pressure for anybody. i'm not saying you SHOULD be sad all the time. but i am saying that at least recognizing it is something to help work toward maybe figuring out why. maybe the other you never got the chance to figure it out and felt that was the only way out. i would rather it not get to that point here.
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i think even if people think of you as genki or whatever that is an unfair expectation since then you have to be happy all the time and that is way too much pressure for anybody.
i'm not saying you SHOULD be sad all the time. but i am saying that at least recognizing it is something to help work toward maybe figuring out why.
maybe the other you never got the chance to figure it out and felt that was the only way out.
i would rather it not get to that point here.